Anak tak nak dan liat nak solat?moh kita tengok hasil perkongsian dan pengalaman Wardina dalam mendidik anak dia untuk bersolat..
I have to share this with you... because i feel so happy and i feel that all my penat lelah paid off...
I
started to make my Amna to solat 5 times a day when she was 7, on her
7th birthday...we had a talk...(check note lama) tapi preparation since 6
la...tapi dari kecik memang selalu ikut2 la kami solat....she hasnt
missed her solat since. Walaupun lambat, tetap solat. I made sure of
that - because the key is SOLAT ni kalau tak tanam dari kecik memang LIAT nanti.... But it is very important to keep this in mind:-
1) kalau kita bagi dia tinggal WALAUPUN sekali nanti we are sending the wrong signal - kena make sure - every waktu without fail, walaupun penat, ataupun lambat
2)l
Selalu kalau boleh solat together..mula2 memang kena solat
together....kalau tak ada rumah make sure an adult in the house pastikan
anak kita solat. (hari tu Amna pergi her reading class, i asked her
teacher to take her to the surau) - lepas solat time tu lah peluk cium,
senyum - i always kiss her at the head and say "Barakallahufiha" Ya Allah make my Amna a good Muslim Ya Allah....make her never miss her solat Ya Allah.....kuat2 bagi dia dengar....
ps:- kalau kena amik cuti ambillah - bukan waktu exam je amik cuti -
buatlah STEP ini, yakni melangkah ke alam 7 tahun dan tidak
meninggalkan solat A BIG Thing! "mama amik cuti hari ni sebab nak
pastikan yang adik solat 5 waktu sehari!"
3)Selalu
cerita how IMPORTANT it is to solat..how Allah is watching us... how
we are good Muslims when we solat, how Allah loves us, Solat tu, untuk
kita, bukan untuk Allah.....TAPI selalu jugak cerita yang akan ada orang
TAK solat...acknowledge the fact that sometimes we feel lazy to
solat....itu semua kerja SETAN! Fight them off....! I tell Amna that
even some grown ups tak solat! I tell Amna that....we have to be
strong.. we have to tell ourselves we will NEVER miss our solat.....
4)Awal2
subuh ni memang tak bangunkan, tapi as soon as dia bangun pagi, ill ask
her to solat straight away.(yes memang leceh..but we have to, and we
have to do it with LOVE diselang seli dgn strictness)
5)kalau dia tinggal - DENGAN sengaja, i take the rotan and hit her on her tapak tangan slowly, just as a reminder. After that i hug her and tell her i love her, and
i just want her to remember - and guess what?? memang dia ingat!!! (3
kali baru, i think not bad, sampai satu hari dia terlambat solat, sebab
keluar dan memang tak ingat, dia yang suruh rotan) But i tell her kalau
TERLUPA atau TERTIDUR its ok...but kena solat terus bila bangun.
Macam ni ceritanya, i
told Amna, kalau Ummi ambik Amna dari sekolah lambat, Amna solat dulu
Asar kat sekolah....tadi memang datang lambat...i was loking for
her..and guess what????
She
was actually praying her Asar prayers...sorang je kat dalam surau
tu....i wanted to pengsan and cry...she did all by herself.... i pun
told her how happy and how proud i was of her...i tanya dia kenapa? dia
kata "Amna ingat apa Ummi cakap".....cair nya hatiku ini.
Apa
lagi, Ummi ni peluk cium dia....and called nenek at Australia...now im
sharing with all of you!!! Because i want us to raise generation of good
Muslims that are disciplined, smart, intelligent -that remembers Allah
because the world so BADLY needs good QUALITY Muslims like this!!!
And the foundation is - to start them off right - solat at SEVEN! Yes just as how Rasulullah asked us!
I love you all!!! Good night.....
But the key to all this IS Mak Ayah KENA dan WAJIB solat dulu...anak ketam tak boleh diajar berjalan terus...fahamkan?
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i took that picture of Amna praying from my table, dia sendiri bangun
solat Isyak...without even bothering me..berbunga hati seorang ibu....
sumber: official page wardina
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